December 9, 2007

10:00 P.M. Well I would like to start with thanking everyone for there prayers for my nephew, it seemed after all hope was lost that Tuesday afternoon he woke up, which really shocked all the Doctors. But they are still having alot of problems with him remembering when and where he is which is very difficult for my sister, but as I told her at least he came out of this early he is still in a comma stage but hopefully this will pass, but as the Doctors say which is my most favorite phrase is we will just have to wait and see. But please continue with the prayers that this passes soon for all! With Stacey we took her to another Eye Doctor, Thanks to the Lions club here in New Haven, Doctor Sumner seen her and went into further test with her and he did see some damage to the back of her right eye, he explained it to me is with a sever head trauma like Stacey's somethings the sockets move out of line and damage happens, he had seen alittle discoloration in the back of the eye, but he agreed with me about not having surgery at this time that she is still healing as far as the brain and everything else, so maybe later down the line if the vision does not clear, but for right now it would be to soon to do surgery, which I was really glad to hear, she has been threw enough for now without another painful surgery, but she was pretty blind so I am hoping with the glasses it will help especially with her headaches! But I would like to extend a Great Big Thank You To the Lion's Club thanks to you she can finally see alot better threw her beautiful glasses again Thank You. My grand babies have but on more wait and finally got moved down to the south side which means we will be getting them home for Christmas. This will be a slow Christmas for us but most of what we could ever want has already been giving to us, thanks to all of you and your continuous prayers, thank you for still continuing on checking on us and reading the blog and being there and supporting us with your prayers, your comments, and all of your friendship we are truly blessed to have so many people like you supporting us in all that we go threw. I know that the Lord will Bless You and Your Family as you have mine, because people like all of you are far and between, which means there is not many of caring people out there like all of you but the thing is you give and you support hopefully at this time of the year it will be passed on. Thank You all For Being YOU! No pictures tonight maybe next week. God Bless!!!!!!!!!!!!

December 4, 2007

12:30 A.M.

I am sorry this is late again this week unfortunately we have had a bad ending to our week. But to get to Stacey we did take her to see the eye doctor on the 28Th and he admitted that her eyesight was pretty bad, but he said it had alot to do with her right eye that continues to get lazy, his first advised was that he thought it may be due to the head trauma and wanted to go in and operate on the eye, but I had to decline for now, I asked if glasses would not help and he said there was a good possibility that it may, so I asked if we could try the glasses for know and if there is no improvement we will go with the surgery, but I would like to wait at least until school is out, I prefer it not at all because she has been threw so much already and with eye surgery is not going to improve her right now, I am afraid she will slide back if she has to endure that pain now, so we are going to stick with glasses as ask for a miracle again so she will not have to endure anymore pain. She did real good with horse riding again this week and she even picked up a friend, he was bound and determined to be with her so he got on the horse with help from Laura and he rode with Stacey most of her session, I will have that on the blog tonight you can click on the picture to make it larger to see her new friend that rode with her! On another note a bad one I need again to ask for extra prayers for me and my family tonight and the next few days especially for my sister Pam, my nephew had an accident, I am not liberty to go into to much details at this time, but we found out today that they think he is pretty well brain dead from the lack of oxygen to his brain. This has been very hard on me because of Jake was like a brother to me, my sister Pam's kids were close to my age, I was an accident so I came first and then my sister started having her kids so we all grew up together. But not only that but it is like seeing Stacey in that bed all over again , the way he coughs and opens his eyes and squeezes our hands when we are there, but I have to explain to my sister as I had to learn he is not aware he is not aware of anything and it so hard to explain to her that unlike Stacey we did not never now when or how and we still don't, but in his case there will never be a possibility. So please say extra prayers for me to be strong and help guide my sister threw this and for the family that we all can stay strong and have the strength to let go of him. Thank You All and God Bless.